Shot through the heart..maybe a solution rather than a problem?

Talking to darling daughter about the big quincetera party thing that she is in the dancing court for tommorow night and I said its nice that your brother was invited too. She said, oh yeah, everybody in the dancing court had their families invited. I said, really? So mom, Matt, you and.....rabbi. She became rather quiet at that point. I was pissed and just said, well have fun and hung up. Then I called her back, she didnt answer, so I texted her and said she`d best call me. She calls and I said, define family. No answer from her. So I said, so I`m not your dad? who is? how convenient for you to have a substitute dad hanging around. she says, I`m not substituting you, your my dad. So I said, thats funny. you didnt let me come to drop you or pick you up at camp, mom and rabbi did. You didnt invite me to attend tommorow night. I said you know what, all I do is work my ass off so you can have things. Your damn expensive bra for the dress and other things you needed, sleepaway camp, trip to Chicago, your moms going to Boston in a couple weeks. What do I get?! NOTHING. I get kicked in the nuts! (didnt say that).
I said to her that I cant believe that this girl I held and fed as a baby and played with and loved with all my heart can treat me this way. Then I got teary eyed and hung up.
The vision I have of the future is not a smooth road, no mater how hard I try I feel that I will never find happiness, contentment..love. Peace.
It sucks